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Mommy, Are Those Good Boons or Bad Boons

9/11/2018

 

by Julie Fuller

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Don’t you just love the funny things our kids say when they misunderstand something? One of my boys was around four and we were at a zoo, as we walked up to the baboon exhibit he asked me with a very serious tone to his voice, “Mommy, are those good boons or bad boons?”   He could not understand my uncontrollable laughter; he really did want to know. 
 
You see baboons are not the friendliest looking members of the primate family.  I mean chimpanzees seem to have a perpetual grin, but not baboons. They have long snouts, sharp fangs and their hair stands on end like it’s about to attack.  Oh and they have a killer death stare (you need to google it and see for yourself).  But really there is no such thing as a good or bad baboon, they are just baboons, looking and behaving exactly as the Creator created them.  But that doesn’t mean it would be wise to get inside a cage with one of them, I stuck my hand in a monkey cage ONCE and almost lost a thumb.
 
As I recalled this story it made me think of 
1 Corinthians 10:23, “Everything is permissible, but not everything is helpful. Everything is permissible but not everything builds up” (HCSB). 
There are no morally “good boons” or “bad boons” but there are harmful “boons”. Much of the activity we fill our day with is neither morally good nor bad.
Things like
  • *Making cookies for my daughter’s class
  • *Taking the kids to the park for play dates
  • *Meeting a friend for coffee
  • *Volunteering at the homeless shelter
  • *Getting involved in a ministry at church
The list goes on and on…
 
But as followers of Christ, we want to bring Him glory in everything we do.
1 Corinthians 10:31 says 
“So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (ESV).
 

If we are not careful, we can fill our days with things that keep us too busy to do the things that bring God glory. So how do we know what will bring him glory?
 
We have to start by asking the Lord, “What do I know that He has called me to do?” Often times this is answered by the people He places in your life and the way He has gifted you.  For example, for me I have 3 things I am certain that God has called me to do, and they are in the order of importance.
  • To bring Him glory as a wife (I know this because he has given me a husband)

  1. To bring Him glory as a mother (I know this because he has given me children)

  2. To bring Him glory as a Bible teacher (I know this because of the way he has gifted me and confirmed this as I walk in obedience)​
Now this doesn’t mean I do not do anything else, but I first ask this question, “How will this activity/ministry effect what I know God has called me to do?”  If it interferes or causes me to neglect that then I must say no to it. If it supports the calling that the Lord has for me then I feel confident in saying yes.
 
***Ladies, I leave you with a challenge this week
  • *Ask the Lord what He wants you to do -look at the   people that He has placed in your life and how He has   gifted you.

  • *Ask Him to help you prioritize all of you activities.

  • *Filter all your decisions through His perfect will and   what he has called you to do.


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    Kim White
    My precious husband, Bill, and I have been planted  in Fort Myers, Florida for almost 35 years. As a newly married couple, God most graciously had placed people in both of our jobs to share Christ with us. Its hard to believe it has been almost 34 years since we asked Jesus into our hearts! Bill and I have been blessed with four children, 3 daughters, then a son. These blessings came quickly, all within 6 years!!  During these years I'm so thankful I was able to be part of women's ministry classes at our church, helping me to grow in my walk with Him. Then came the day when I was asked that question  that stretched me way outside of my comfort zone...will you teach a class? Its hard to believe that I have now been teaching more than 20 years. Bill and I love to travel, most of the time going to visit our 9 grandchildren, oh ya, and their parents! I also love reading, walking and hanging out with some very special young moms in Beloved that bless my socks off!
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